There are many things that we can do to bring more authenticity into our lives and stop being so tense. First, we need to be true to ourselves even if that means being vulnerable at times. In order to become a very loving person, you need to have experiences that teach you about love. We simply can’t be a great lover until we have accepted relationships with all parts of ourselves and have deemed ourselves worthy and lovable.
- To become a more loving person, we need to experience it ourselves through difficult times.
- Conscious loving means we need to come out from behind the security of our promoted image and still be more authetntic.
- To fully love we must be able to hold the tension of opposites. We can be fully committed to someone while still being free to be ourselves.
“We cannot be a capable lover until we have established an accepting relationship with all parts of ourselves”