May we all be lucky enough o have a mate that never sees nothing wrong. Always looking for the best in every body and in everything. I got married late in life. My now husband is also a person who is kind and lives to please me. I often think how much I would miss him if he should go to be with the Lord before I do. He does everything for me and loves for me to need him. Some women don’t realize that men are wired to be needed. Women who are in a relationship with a man who needs her to need him should be very grateful and less independent. Your independence should be there yes. But we women should be smart enough in our independence to allow our men/man to think we need them. It will allow your relationship to be easier and rewarding to both parties.
One day we are going to wake up and find that our mate is gone and all the little things he/she did that made us smile are gone also. We are going to be left to figure out how to use the remote control to control the rest of our lives without our loved one.
That’s not a good look ladies/gentlemen.
- I learned my husband had a disaster in his car trunk but always had what he needed.
- I learned he was a better dad than I thought. He really loved and cared for our children.
- He did not know how to be sweet but was in his own corny way.
“Being needed ― and appreciated ― is one of the things that keeps a marriage alive.”