He divorce rate in the U.S. is at 50%. That means that half of couples give up when the going gets tough, but half is able to work it out. What are their secrets? First of all, they remember that no one is perfect and they include the little things when viewing the relationship. This helps them appreciate their relationship more. They are also willing to put in the work to get results. They realize that the only people who can fix the marriage are them. They listen to their partner and admit when they are wrong.