Often times today, relationships are damaged due to cheating or adultery. People find it so hard to stay committed it seems like. The woman in the article talks about her own experience with being in a relationship where adultery was committed. She explains how the victims of the situation have no idea and may never find out they are being cheating on, so to them everything is fine. It is harmful before it’s l discovered because people are living in ignorance that their partner still loves them.
- Long before cheating is discovered, there exists the irrefutable point that the one one being cheated on is going about their life, lacking information that would substantially change their actions.
- Even beyond the deception and the physical immorality, there is the fact that cheating is a form of disrespect, allowing both partners to live a lie.
- Kai Cole noted her feelings about her ex-husband, when she said, that his actions had the effect of “taking away my right to make choices…based on the truth.”
“It’s often acknowledged that the true harm in adultery is betrayal, but this doesn’t mean only the broken promise of exclusivity.”